Here's the biggest Tabu female. We are born and grow with the idea that only men masturbate and naturalize this aspect, but when it comes to ourselves, it is a forbidden theme, little spoken, or denied.
Exploring our sexuality: Discovering our body and enjoying the process
It usually occurs from small, unconsciously we seek stimulation, touch, Cosquilleo in the genital area. Sometimes with the water tap or the bidet, with cushions or sheets, with light rubs with our hands, among others. Self-discovering is a great step towards sexuality, to generate self-confidence in one and to befriend our genitals. If we do not have this prior knowledge, How will we be able to share sexuality with another and know what is what gives us pleasure?
After picking up this mirror that gives us so much fear and putting it between our legs, we will dress up with a lot of things that as we grow, will continue to change. With the first explorations of the vulva we ask ourselves; What is this? How does that work? How do I feel about this? Whenever we do, new questions and different answers can arise. The end is not to get to orgasm or “break” but enjoy the process and path to it and see how it makes us feel. Time has to be given. It is much longer for people with vulva-vagina to stimulate and generate excitement.
Exploring your own pleasure: Self-discovery and sexual liberation
One must try to stimulate in various ways, in various positions: mouth above, mouth below open legs, closed, folded, almohadões, toys, standing, sitting. The ideal would be to look for a place where you feel comfortable, whether the bathroom or your bathroom. You can stimulate the entire area of the vulva, vagina, year, any erogenous zone. Take the time for self sexual exploitation It's the main goal. It is liberating, comforting, biologically and psychologically aid to the body. It is necessary to interpret these experiences as positive, not always comes to what we seek but all It's a path of learning and discovery.
Creating the environment, lighting candles, putting music, decreasing the light, perfumeing a little all this we can do to generate a pleasant space for the erotic mental state we want to achieve. Start slowly is the key, The body likes to go slow and progress progressively. Breathe. “When we touch the body parts more, the erogenous zones increase the oxytocin (the attachment hormone) that causes physical contact. It develops and cultivates in us a sense of security and well-being as well as of sexual desire. We must overcome the limitations. To welcome positive thoughts. Sexuality is an exercise, we exercise in being us”
Learning what we don't like is also part of the sexual process. What brings you emotionally masturbate? What makes you think of her sexuality? What time, when you see yourself?
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